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      <title><![CDATA[Maybe she should switch to unich? Get it?]]></title>
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      <description><![CDATA[Found this in one of the groups I belong to at Eons. Go ahead, forward it to the lil wife


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Dear Tech Support

Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and...]]></description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<div > Found this in one of the groups I belong to at Eons.<br/>Go ahead, forward it to the lil wife. </div>
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<td valign="top"><!-- CLIPPED FROM: http://www.eons.com/groups/topic/981505--b-Computer-HA-HA-to-Start-Off-the-Day-b- -->Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and noticed a distinct slowing down in overall system performance, particularly in the Flower and Jewelry applications, which operated flawlessly under Boyfriend 5.0. In addition, Husband 1.0 uninstalled many other valuable programs, such as Romance 9.5 and Personal Attention 6.5, and then installed undesirable programs such as NBA 5.0, NASCAR 3.0 and Golf 4.1. </td>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2008 09:19:48 +0000</pubDate>
      <category domain="http://securityratty.com/tag/dear tech support">dear tech support</category>
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      <source url="http://spywarebiz.com/spywarebizblog/?p=508">Maybe she should switch to unich? Get it?</source>
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      <title><![CDATA[Gonzo: Two Thumbs In and Up]]></title>
      <link>http://securityratty.com/article/6853c438c7bef73e63a300124d9cf5de</link>
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      <description><![CDATA[Just saw the Hunter S. Thompson movie - Gonzo , and if you are a fan you should to. Lots of good stuff in there, the film links various part of his life and career, and gives a pretty unvarnished view...]]></description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hunter_S._Thompson"></a><a style="float: left;" href="http://1raindrop.typepad.com/.a/6a00d83451c75869e200e553c045c48834-pi"><img  class="at-xid-6a00d83451c75869e200e553c045c48834 " alt="180px-Gonzo_citation" src="http://1raindrop.typepad.com/.a/6a00d83451c75869e200e553c045c48834-320wi" style="margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;"></a> Just saw the Hunter S. Thompson movie - <a href="http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/gonzo_the_life_and_work_of_dr_hunter_s_thompson/">Gonzo</a>, and if you are a fan you should to. Lots of good stuff in there, the film links various part of his life and career, and gives a pretty unvarnished view of the high highs and the low lows. Weaves in writing, politics, and fame seamlessly.

I have never really had as much fun as early on in my career in the early-mid 90s I was a web programmer in Aspen, hacking CGI/PERL. Among the most fun things was building and running HST's site. My boss, Ed, was his neighbor. Ed was also seriously allergic to bees. One day he was alone in his house and got stung. He was dying. Luckily Hunter was due over to his house to watch a basketball game, walked in and called 911. My boss woke up in the ambulance with Hunter pounding on him chest and screaming at him. Ed said - "Waking up to that face screaming at me, I didn't know if I was alive or dead."

Seeing the movie it was also great to see a lot of the Woody Creek folks again like George Stranahan, who lovingly said about Hunter - "my friend and neighbor who never paid his rent, broke up my marriage and taught my children to smoke dope. "

Of course, there was no way he could match his early productivity and this is true of almost all artists. Most of the last two decades were wasted from a writing standpoint. However his <a href="http://proxy.espn.go.com/espn/page2/story?id=1250751">piece</a> written on 9/11 is as good as its gets:

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	The towers are gone now, reduced to bloody rubble, along with all hopes for Peace in Our Time, in the United States or any other country. Make no mistake about it: We are At War now -- with somebody -- and we will stay At War with that mysterious Enemy for the rest of our lives. 	
	</p></blockquote><blockquote><p>It will be a Religious War, a sort of Christian Jihad, fueled by religious hatred and led by merciless fanatics on both sides. It will be guerilla warfare on a global scale, with no front lines and no identifiable enemy. Osama bin Laden may be a primitive "figurehead" -- or even dead, for all we know -- but whoever put those All-American jet planes loaded with All-American fuel into the Twin Towers and the Pentagon did it with chilling precision and accuracy. The second one was a dead-on bullseye. Straight into the middle of the skyscraper. 	
	</p></blockquote><blockquote><p>Nothing -- even George Bush's $350 billion "Star Wars" missile defense system -- could have prevented Tuesday's attack, and it cost next to nothing to pull off. Fewer than 20 unarmed Suicide soldiers from some apparently primitive country somewhere on the other side of the world took out the World Trade Center and half the Pentagon with three quick and costless strikes on one day. The efficiency of it was terrifying. 	
	</p></blockquote><blockquote><p>We are going to punish somebody for this attack, but just who or what will be blown to smithereens for it is hard to say. Maybe Afghanistan, maybe Pakistan or Iraq, or possibly all three at once. Who knows? Not even the Generals in what remains of the Pentagon or the New York papers calling for WAR seem to know who did it or where to look for them. 	
	</p></blockquote><blockquote><p>This is going to be a very expensive war, and Victory is not guaranteed -- for anyone, and certainly not for anyone as baffled as George W. Bush. All he knows is that his father started the war a long time ago, and that he, the goofy child-President, has been chosen by Fate and the global Oil industry to finish it Now. He will declare a National Security Emergency and clamp down Hard on Everybody, no matter where they live or why. If the guilty won't hold up their hands and confess, he and the Generals will ferret them out by force. 	
	</p></blockquote><blockquote><p>Good luck. He is in for a profoundly difficult job -- armed as he is with no credible Military Intelligence, no witnesses and only the ghost of Bin Laden to blame for the tragedy.
	
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One unintended lesson I take away from Hunter's life is how important patience is. Obama is a politician and may yet disappoint us all, but I gotta believe Hunter would be seriously impressed. If he had waited another couple of years, he may have seen a lot of the stuff he fought for in 1968 and 72 come to fruition. Sometimes you are just 36-40 years ahead of your time and you have to be ok with that and figure out how to deal if possible. (Note - it sure sometimes feels this way in software security).

Speaking of security:

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	<p><a href="http://www.ram.org/contrib/security.html">Security</a> 	
	</p></blockquote><blockquote><p>by Hunter S. Thompson (1955). 	
	</p></blockquote><blockquote><p>Security ... what does this word mean in relation to life as we know it today? For the most part, it means safety and freedom from worry. It is said to be the end that all men strive for; but is security a utopian goal or is it another word for rut? 	
	</p></blockquote><blockquote><p>Let us visualize the secure man; and by this term, I mean a man who has settled for financial and personal security for his goal in life. In general, he is a man who has pushed ambition and initiative aside and settled down, so to speak, in a boring, but safe and comfortable rut for the rest of his life. His future is but an extension of his present, and he accepts it as such with a complacent shrug of his shoulders. His ideas and ideals are those of society in general and he is accepted as a respectable, but average and prosaic man. But is he a man? has he any self-respect or pride in himself? How could he, when he has risked nothing and gained nothing? What does he think when he sees his youthful dreams of adventure, accomplishment, travel and romance buried under the cloak of conformity? How does he feel when he realizes that he has barely tasted the meal of life; when he sees the prison he has made for himself in pursuit of the almighty dollar? If he thinks this is all well and good, fine, but think of the tragedy of a man who has sacrificed his freedom on the altar of security, and wishes he could turn back the hands of time. A man is to be pitied who lacked the courage to accept the challenge of freedom and depart from the cushion of security and see life as it is instead of living it second-hand. Life has by-passed this man and he has watched from a secure place, afraid to seek anything better What has he done except to sit and wait for the tomorrow which never comes? 	
	</p></blockquote><blockquote><p>Turn back the pages of history and see the men who have shaped the destiny of the world. Security was never theirs, but they lived rather than existed. Where would the world be if all men had sought security and not taken risks or gambled with their lives on the chance that, if they won, life would be different and richer? It is from the bystanders (who are in the vast majority) that we receive the propaganda that life is not worth living, that life is drudgery, that the ambitions of youth must he laid aside for a life which is but a painful wait for death. These are the ones who squeeze what excitement they can from life out of the imaginations and experiences of others through books and movies. These are the insignificant and forgotten men who preach conformity because it is all they know. These are the men who dream at night of what could have been, but who wake at dawn to take their places at the now-familiar rut and to merely exist through another day. For them, the romance of life is long dead and they are forced to go through the years on a treadmill, cursing their existence, yet afraid to die because of the unknown which faces them after death. They lacked the only true courage: the kind which enables men to face the unknown regardless of the consequences. 	
	</p></blockquote><blockquote><p>As an afterthought, it seems hardly proper to write of life without once mentioning happiness; so we shall let the reader answer this question for himself: who is the happier man, he who has braved the storm of life and lived or he who has stayed securely on shore and merely existed?
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A ship is safest at port, but thats not why we build ships. 
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      <pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 06:10:12 +0000</pubDate>
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      <source url="http://1raindrop.typepad.com/1_raindrop/2008/07/gonzo-two-thumbs-in-and-up.html">Gonzo: Two Thumbs In and Up</source>
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      <title><![CDATA[Fear of Internet Predators Largely Unfounded]]></title>
      <link>http://securityratty.com/article/ca4557b642fe33e2dc24491bfd24920b</link>
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      <description><![CDATA[Does this really come as a surprise? &quot;There's been some overreaction to the new technology, especially when it comes to the danger that strangers represent,&quot; said Janis Wolak, a sociologist at the...]]></description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Does <a href="http://www.mcclatchydc.com/homepage/story/28029.html">this</a> really come as a surprise?</p>

<blockquote>"There's been some overreaction to the new technology, especially when it comes to the danger that strangers represent," said Janis Wolak, a sociologist at the Crimes against Children Research Center at the University of New Hampshire in Durham.

<p>"Actually, Internet-related sex crimes are a pretty small proportion of sex crimes that adolescents suffer," Wolak added, based on three nationwide surveys conducted by the center.</p>

<p>[...]</p>

<p>In an article titled "Online 'Predators' and Their Victims," which appears Tuesday in American Psychologist, the journal of the American Psychological Association, Wolak and co-researchers examined several fears that they concluded are myths:</p>

<ul><li>Internet predators are driving up child sex crime rates.

<p>Finding: Sex assaults on teens fell 52 percent from 1993 to 2005, according to the Justice Department's National Crime Victimization Survey, the best measure of U.S. crime trends. "The Internet may not be as risky as a lot of other things that parents do without concern, such as driving kids to the mall and leaving them there for two hours," Wolak said.</p>

<p><li>Internet predators are pedophiles.</p>

<p>Finding: Internet predators don't hit on the prepubescent children whom pedophiles target. They target adolescents, who have more access to computers, more privacy and more interest in sex and romance, Wolak's team determined from interviews with investigators.</p>

<p><li>Internet predators represent a new dimension of child sexual abuse.</p>

<p>Finding: The means of communication is new, according to Wolak, but most Internet-linked offenses are essentially statutory rape: nonforcible sex crimes against minors too young to consent to sexual relationships with adults.</p>

<p><li>Internet predators trick or abduct their victims.</p>

<p>Finding: Most victims meet online offenders face-to-face and go to those meetings expecting to engage in sex. Nearly three-quarters have sex with partners they met on the Internet more than once.</p>

<p><li>Internet predators meet their victims by posing online as other teens.</p>

<p>Finding: Only 5 percent of predators did that, according to the survey of investigators.</p>

<p><li>Online interactions with strangers are risky.</p>

<p>Finding: Many teens interact online all the time with people they don't know. What's risky, according to Wolak, is giving out names, phone numbers and pictures to strangers and talking online with them about sex.</p>

<p><li>Internet predators go after any child.</p>

<p>Finding: Usually their targets are adolescent girls or adolescent boys of uncertain sexual orientation, according to Wolak. Youths with histories of sexual abuse, sexual orientation concerns and patterns of off- and online risk-taking are especially at risk.</ul></blockquote></p>

<p>In January, I <a href="http://www.schneier.com/blog/archives/2008/01/myspace_and_us_1.html">said this</a>:</p>

<blockquote>...there isn't really any problem with child predators -- just a tiny handful of highly publicized stories -- on MySpace. It's just security theater against a movie-plot threat. But we humans have a well-established cognitive bias that overestimates threats against our children, so it all makes sense.</blockquote><div class="feedflare">
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      <pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2008 03:30:10 +0000</pubDate>
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      <source url="http://www.schneier.com/blog/archives/2008/02/fear_of_interne.html">Fear of Internet Predators Largely Unfounded</source>
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      <title><![CDATA[Storm worm dethroned by sex botnet]]></title>
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      <description><![CDATA[Romance is out and sex is in, according to security experts who said the Mega-Dik botnet has ousted the infamous Storm as the most prolific sender of...]]></description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[Romance is out and sex is in, according to security experts who said the Mega-Dik botnet has ousted the infamous Storm as the most prolific sender of spam.]]></content:encoded>
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      <source url="http://www.networkworld.com/news/2008/020408-storm-worm-dethroned-by-sex.html?fsrc=rss-security">Storm worm dethroned by sex botnet</source>
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      <description><![CDATA[My friends have gotten tired of hearing me talk about how dreadful it is to be single. One of my friends S. (who has four children and a mortgage) suggested that I take over looking after his kids...]]></description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[My friends have gotten tired of hearing me talk about how dreadful it is to be single. One of my friends S. (who has four children and a mortgage) suggested that I take over looking after his kids while *he* wakes up with a hangover next to a half-empty bottle of Jack Daniels and photos of a wild party and the younger sister of one of my work colleagues (Hi M!). 

Another friend, R, asked me why I don't frequent the singles bar scene. I replied that I'm looking for <a href="http://www.lyricsdepot.com/the-beautiful-south/good-as-gold.html">a sun-drenched wind-swept Ingrid Bergman kiss</a>, a heart touching romance and a soul companion -- not some sordid meaningless fling. He sagely nodded his head and voiced his hopes that I enjoy the rest of my long life looking forward to dying alone...]]></content:encoded>
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      <source url="http://www.rsa.com/blog/blog_entry.aspx?id=1234">Hey, do I know you?</source>
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